{"id":2935,"date":"2020-07-29T22:23:37","date_gmt":"2020-07-29T22:23:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aflux.ro\/?p=2935"},"modified":"2020-07-29T22:23:37","modified_gmt":"2020-07-29T22:23:37","slug":"alege-sa-te-eliberezi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oanaberdila.com\/en\/alege-sa-te-eliberezi\/","title":{"rendered":"Alege s\u0103 te eliberezi!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Suntem educa\u021bi de mici s\u0103 ne raportam la lumea exterioar\u0103 \u0219i ne construim via\u021ba \u00een func\u021bie de valorile din afara noastr\u0103: ce spunem, ce facem, cum reac\u021bion\u0103m, cum ne comport\u0103m, ce meserii sunt cel mai bine pl\u0103tite, \u00een ce grupuri de oameni alegem s\u0103 intr\u0103m. Imaginea de sine este o \u00eensumare a p\u0103rerilor celorlal\u021bi despre noi.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva, sans-serif;\">Avem impresia c\u0103 realiz\u0103rile noastre materiale ne dau dreptul sa control\u0103m ceva, a\u0219a c\u0103 alerg\u0103m ca nebunii s\u0103 cre\u0219tem pe scara ierarhic\u0103 a societa\u021bii pe si<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">stemul supravie\u021buirii junglei: tr\u0103iesc doar copacii \u00eenal\u021bi, falnici, doar cei care ajung primii mai aproape de soare.<br \/>\nTo\u021bi vrem putere pentru a-i putea controla pe al\u021bii \u0219i suntem irita\u021bi cand oamenii nu ne sus\u021bin in demersurile noastre, nu ne in\u021beleg, chiar \u00eei judec\u0103m aspru pentru c\u0103 au uitat cand noi le-am stat al\u0103turi. Credem c\u0103-i putem schimba pe ceilal\u021bi \u0219i-i \u00eempingem \u00een direc\u021bia opus\u0103 dorin\u021bei lor, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne pese dac\u0103 vor sau nu.<br \/>\nIar c\u00e2nd rezultatul este altul decat a\u0219tept\u0103rile noastre, ne \u00eenfuriem, devenim stresa\u021bi, tensiona\u021bi, anxiosi, tr\u0103da\u021bi, ne sim\u021bim ca \u00eentr-o cu\u0219ca in care suntem iremediabil pierdu\u021bi, ne sufoc\u0103m, ne sim\u021bim singuri, f\u0103r\u0103 ajutor si f\u0103r\u0103 speran\u021b\u0103. Ne pierdem \u00eencrederea in noi, bucuria de a tr\u0103i, sensul si direc\u021bia.<br \/>\nTindem s\u0103 credem ca putem g\u0103si bucuria din interac\u021biunile cu ceilal\u021bi si astfel d\u0103m controlul de sine in m\u00e2inile altor oameni, depinz\u00e2nd de ei \u0219i de reac\u021biile si ac\u021biunile lor.<br \/>\n\u00cen spatele nevoii de control a celorlal\u021bi este de fapt teama de a nu pierde controlul de sine, frica de suferin\u021b\u0103 si evitarea durerii.<br \/>\nRealitatea este una singura: nu putem controla nimic din exteriorul nostru, singurul lucru pe care \u00eel putem controla sunt doar g\u00e2ndurile noastre si deci starea noastr\u0103 interior\u0103.<br \/>\nOpre\u0219te-te s\u0103 mai dai controlul \u00een exterior, renun\u021b\u0103 la a mai avea a\u0219tept\u0103ri de la al\u021bii, fii responsabil pentru g\u00e2ndurile, emo\u021biile \u0219i ac\u021biunile tale \u0219i astfel po\u021bi s\u0103-\u021bi creezi starea de bucurie de tine independent de ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een afara ta.<br \/>\nSchimb\u0103-\u021bi credin\u021bele limitative, elimin\u0103 convingeri \u0219i valori ce \u021bi-au fost inoculate \u0219i care nu te mai reprezint\u0103. E\u0219ti singurul responsabil pentru fericirea ta!\u00a0<\/span><strong><span class=\"text_exposed_show\">Alege s\u0103 te eliberezi!<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Suntem educa\u021bi de mici s\u0103 ne raportam la lumea exterioar\u0103 \u0219i ne construim via\u021ba \u00een func\u021bie de valorile din afara noastr\u0103: ce spunem, ce facem, cum reac\u021bion\u0103m, cum ne comport\u0103m, ce meserii sunt cel mai bine pl\u0103tite, \u00een ce grupuri de oameni alegem s\u0103 intr\u0103m. 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